Cruising for public sex rules and etiquette.
Here are my personal philosophies and general
etiquette for having sex in public places.
Bathroom cruising
1. Do not hold up the entire scene. This is a
public bathroom if two guys are in the available stalls and want privacy
, you can offer your services ,but if they decline, let the scene continue,
do not stand there holding everything up..leave.. and come back later.
Respect the fact the the other guys where their first
2. By the same token the guys in the stall need to remember that this
is public place and they can not expect to have privacy for hours on
end. Let other guys watch
it is no big deal. If you want total
control and privacy bring the guy to other area, or stay home.
3. If two guys leave the can for a more quiet place do not follow them.
If they wanted company they would have stayed in the busy bathroom in
the first place.
4. Do not be a total pig and stay in a stall for 6 hours, break it up
a little and let the scene happen. Not everyone will want to get serviced
by you. No one person is everyone's type so let everyone have a little
fun.
5. Threesome and urinal group action is really hot, but respect if someone
is not interested in you. Step aside and let the action happen and do
not get in the person's face. Do not be so aggressive that you break
up a hot scene cause the guys are not into you. I have guys literally
seen guys pull a dick out of someone's mouth so they could try and suck
it.!
6. Do not be an asshole. If you are hot guy with a big dick, do not
think that you have the right to tell everyone to fuckoff until you
find the perfect cocksucker. This is about public sex, if you're a princess
with a bad "no one is good enough for me attitude" stay home.
I have watched many hot scenes be ruin by some guy who thinks one on
is good enough to touch him.
7. Some guys are into just under the stall wall action, and do not want
anyone to see their faces, respect that.
8. This should be obvious but never acknowledge that you recognize someone
you had anonymous public sex with outside of the context. Ei, do not
be at a party and say "hi Bill, didn't I suck you off at the subway
bathroom on Sunday." Never tell any non_cruiser about your habits,
and cruising places.
9. Be nice to each other and show a little respect. A polite "
no thanks" will get better results than "fuckoff" troll.
10. Respect your elders! One day you too will old, and would want someone
to treat you with a little respect. I am not saying that you should
have sex with old guys, I just mean you do not have the right to tell
them to fuckoff or be rude.
11. If you have a guys cock underneath the stall wall, ask before sitting
one it .I have heard stories of guys sticking it underneath for a blowjob
and then has some guys sit on it bareback. Always ask the guy if he
is into fucking and condoms should always be used.
12. Do not be one of those really annoying guys that brings a book and
sits in the stall for hours and does nothing because the prefect guys
does not show up.
13. Do not leave a mess, clean up after yourself. Do no leave used condoms
and cumshot on the floor. This is a sure fired way to piss off the management
and fuck up the whole scene.
14. You are in a bathroom, sometimes people come in to use the facilities.
Try and keep one of the stalls free for "regular" customers
to use.
15. The bathroom should not look like a gathering place for gay guys.
If the place is busy, leave and come back later. I have been in bathrooms
that have 6 stalls and 6 urinals and all are full, and still 8 guys
are standing around waiting. This is another sure fire way to draw attention
to the fact that sex is happening and will eventually be the death of
the scene.
16. Respect the one pass rule. If you offer your services to some guy
and he declines, making 6 more advances with not change the fact that
he is not interested. It will only piss him off.
Gloryholes and Adult Bookstores
and movie theater.
1.Gloryhole holes are prime real estate.
Do not be a total pig and monopolize the stall for hours.
2.Allot straight guys go to adult theater and are not interested in
sex with men. These guys usually sit is a different " non-cruisy
" area of the theater. Crusing around the theater is fine by realize
some guys just want to be left alone and being overly aggressive can
be dangerous and results in complaints to the management. Most straight
guys looking for head no what to do to show potential cocksucker that
they are open for business.
3. Bodylanguge: Read body language. If a guy
is total covering up and turning away from you he is not interested.
Let it go
move on..it is one cock you are not going to suck
.get
over it.
4.I am always torn on this one. In the open theater
you can not expect privacy. But you should be able to get sucked or
fucked without having unsolicited hands groping at your cock. You can
not expect to have people not look at you. If you want total privacy
..go home.
5Crusing around private video booths: Generally
if a guys leaves his door slightly open he is looking for some action.
My personally experience suggests that the guys looking to get services
go into the booths and the cocksucker stay outside and move from booth
to booth until they find someone who lets them in the booth .
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